Raghu Krishnamoorthy is a seasoned global executive with 36+ years of experience in driving business outcomes as a Human Resources professional. He retired from General Electric (GE) as the CHRO in early 2019, after 25 years with the company — doing work that spanned three continents, several multi-billion-dollar lines of business, and exciting corporate leadership roles. At Mentora, Raghu serves as an Executive Director and Senior Faculty, leveraging his experience and expertise in driving pragmatic, application-oriented solutions in learning and transformational change.
Raghu is often sought out to share his expertise at colleges and forums like Harvard, MIT, Yale, and the Economist, the Milken Institute, etc. He has authored a number of articles published in a number of publications, including HBR. Most recently, his research won the best paper award at the Academy of Business Research August conference.
In this episode of Intersections, Prof. Hitendra Wadhwa has a conversation with Dr. Raghu Krishnamoorthy on the topic “The Future of Leadership Lies Within”.
In the post-pandemic era, trends such as the “Great Resignation,” hybrid work and employee well-being are creating a paradigm shift in organizational culture. These trends require us to go back to the basics to redefine the model of what it means to be an exceptional leader. The way we lead today needs to evolve to embrace the new future of work, workers and the workplace.
Based on Dr. Wadhwa’s recently published book, Inner Mastery, Outer Impact, we examine how Inner Mastery could provide the foundation on which leaders can tackle these shifts for their organizations — as they manage people and drive performance, equip their managers with new skills and tools to tackle the accompanying challenges, and help employees operate in an ever-changing landscape of continued disruption.
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Greetings. This is Hitendra Wadhwa and welcome to Intersections! We call this podcast Intersections, because so many times, we get very confined and limited, sometimes unconsciously, if not consciously, because of silos, because of boundaries, because we get so caught up in certain boxes that we trap ourselves in. Therefore, the role of Intersections is to help us dissolve those boundaries, to zoom out and see things from a more integrative and whole lens. Because when we do that, flashes of new insights, new connections, new creativity and possibilities emerge.
Today, it is my great pleasure to actually hand over the hosting responsibility to a dear friend, a colleague and a mentor, Raghu Krishnamoorthy. Raghu is the former CHRO of GE. Over the course of a few decades at G.E., he established a remarkably successful path for himself, for example, going all the way from being the CHRO for GE Aviation, which is when I first got to know him, then the Chief Learning Officer for GE, the Chief Talent Officer, the Chief Human Resource Officer for GE Healthcare and ultimately for the whole global enterprise. He moved on from there upon retirement, to pursue a PhD in leadership at University of Pennsylvania as well as a partnership with my team and I at Mentora Institute, where he has been a beloved colleague as an executive director and a senior executive coach.
Raghu has since then graduated. He's now Dr. Raghu Krishnamoorthy. He's also taken over stewardship as the Director and Chief Learning Officer program at University of Pennsylvania, while simultaneously working with my team and I and our clients at Mentora.
Raghu, it is a pleasure to have you with us. Thank you for joining us today.
Thank you, Hitendra. It's a real pleasure to be back at Intersections after a gap of a couple of years. You're right. A lot has gone by in the last two years, including me now turning to an academic career like yourself in many ways and learning from you along the way. It's a pleasure to be with all of you. I'm looking forward to a wonderful discussion.
Thank you. I'm going to hand over the reins to you. Raghu was kind enough to say, “Hitendra, let me actually steward the show and then draw some things out from you, because you have just come out with a book and we want to talk about that among so many other important things around the future of leadership that you're going to weigh in on.” I'm happy to do that. Just before I do that, I do want to say what I've seen over the last two years, is just this incredible passion you have for learning. This curiosity that makes you interview and soak in all kinds of thinking from others, trends and themes out there and then repackaging them in a way that allows us to make sense of our complicated times. And it's a gift to have you with us, Raghu. The floor is yours.
Thank you for those kind words. I must also congratulate you for coming out with such an important book for our times. I think we'll certainly have a chance to discuss where my own research and your book coincide and I'm sure, we’ll have a very interesting conversation on some of the themes I'm uncovering, which gets addressed very well in the book. We certainly enjoy that part of the conversation as well.
The way I thought of structuring this discussion over the next hour is to talk about 3 things. First is to hold the whole discussion in the current context. I call it, living in the age of unreality. I will explain to you what I mean by that. After we set the context, understand where we are and where we are going, which by the way, I don’t think anybody has a clue on where we are going and if somebody pretends to have, they are perhaps not sharing the truth. But, I think there are some pointers that we would perhaps have some understanding of. From there, I want to talk about what it means for us as humankind?
I am going to talk about the age of unfolding. Covid has been a phenomenal tragedy, often a humanitarian crisis. Having said that, it is also a natural experiment that has caused many of us to pause and reflect on who we are and what we want to be. I think there is an unfolding that is going on. If there is anything good that has come out over the last 2-3 years, it’s certainly a search within. What that unfolding looks like in the workplace is something that we will touch upon. That’s where I will bring in some of the stuff that you have written about Hitendra.
Finally, from there, I am going to talk about the age of unlearning. That’s where I am going to talk about the fact that we have to unlearn management and re-learn leadership for the new era that we are going into. Those are the 3 facets of this discussion.
Let me start by giving some statistics. Just yesterday, Amazon came out with a report saying that they are worried about the fact that they are going to run out of people by 2024. I was struck by that. What do they mean by that? So, I looked into the article and they are experiencing huge attrition. They are experiencing attrition of about 3 to 4% a week. Somebody did the totaling and it had come to about 150% attrition every year. In the warehouse business, the normal attrition is 45 to 50%. Amazon is experiencing 3 times the attrition a normal benchmark on attrition is. It made me pause and look at the data as what's really happening and there's some very contradicting issues that are creeping up. First is, we are all aware of the great resignation, which spiked in November 2021, in terms of the fact that we have more openings than jobs, huge talent shortage, and you can see that is obviously affecting many of our lives. If you go to the airport, there is a strong chance that your flight is being canceled these days, particularly in the US. While that was happening, I was looking at the trend in terms of Google search. The word great resignation obviously has been very popular, but it's starting to ease off. In its place, now we're starting to talk about the great restructuring. Many organizations are starting to lay off people, especially in the tech world. Even Elon Musk has come back and said, “Listen, I'm going to lay off people because I overstocked.
I think, especially in some of the industries, you overengineered the workforce in the last few months because you're worried about staffing issues. And now given the fact that we are perhaps going to be heading into a very dark moment in our economic history, there is going to be some kind of a rethinking on that equation. That is happening. So, you have great resignation. That has still not stopped. The interesting thing with the great resignation is, 33% of the people who have left organizations have left without jobs. This is a McKinsey survey. Where are they going? You can see that affecting us in the hospitals. There's a nursing shortage. There is a pilot shortage. In certain professions, people are not coming back. I think we have to understand what is really happening. The third dimension to this is also very interesting. Some of the industries that were traditionally certainly not affected by unionization, are now starting to see unions become very active. Apple has just organized a union for the first time in an Apple Store in North Carolina. Amazon Warehouses are organizing. The Starbucks I go to at the University of Pennsylvania claims now that they are unionized.
You have an interesting cocktail of issues cropping up related to the workforce. My own feeling is that when we talk about what it means for leadership. You need to keep in mind that this is unreal. I don't think we know where this is going to stop because the moment you have the great resignation followed by the great restructuring, and when a recession happens or restructuring happens, people actually hunker down. They actually stop leaving because they want to have the safety net of a job. So you're going to stop seeing the great resignation. You're going to see the uptick in great restructuring. But the moment the economy comes back, you're going to see the resurgence of the great resignation once again because of pent up demand for people to go and try something else. So you're going to see these swings over the next few years.
If you were to look at the future of work, the future of work is very dynamic. You're going to see resignations, restructuring, resignations, restructuring over the next many years with all other complications like unionization and all built into that equation. It's going to be 3 or 4 cycles of shifts that we don't even know where it's going to land. Actually, you may assume or think that this makes me a little pessimistic, but I'm actually very optimistic, because in these tectonic shifts that we are seeing, we really don't have a clue about what the context tells us where the world is going. Most people find solace within, not outside. In fact, you all know that Sheryl Sandberg left Meta is planning to leave Meta. She had written this book on Lean In. If you look at the reason why she said she's leaving, she said, “I want to focus on my philanthropy work and I want to focus on the foundation.” It tells us that as far as Sheryl Sandberg is concerned, it's not about leaning in anymore. Maybe, it's about learning more. And if it's leaning within, then I think that talks to the fact that there is a very interesting shift happening in the world. When we cannot control the outside, we need to start looking inside.
That is so beautiful. You pointed to some really powerful shifts and trends that are going on right now in the business world. The unionization is actually one of the fresher ones. Restructuring is around the corner. I was at Heathrow Airport just a couple of days ago, getting stuck in that lack of manpower situation, with baggage claim taking 3 hours before we were able to retrieve a baggage with no announcement, no update, no nothing. It's as if the airport has just completely given up. Restrained to the ultimate and just given up on being able to be operationally efficient or even in any way accountable. I also want to highlight that when you combine this with social disruptions that are happening around us as well, from the mental health crisis, the political and social divisions, the geopolitical challenges, the question about what is the role of businesses in society. Is it purely to produce investor return or something else? Well, what is that something else? And if some employees pull you one way and then others don't want to have you take an official position or change that much, it's a tough spot that any of the leaders and managers of organizations today are placed in both from the outside and inside.
I think that's a real tough spot. In fact, I read a statistic which said 78% of the CEOs expect to be fired within the next couple of years. Imagine the tension that they would be in.
Raghu, I have been studying these things more from the outside. I had humble steps in my career at McKinsey and doing startups, and then I ended up in business school 20 years ago. You had a long and a storied ride at one of the preeminent organizations of its time, a conglomerate, at GE. So you've seen a whole lot of these dynamics play out in past decades. And I'm just curious, can you put this in perspective for us, for those of us who don't have that kind of experience as you do. Like, how close or far from normal is this? If not normal, there have been exceptional moments in the past where change and uncertainty and all of that has been foisted on leaders, managers and organizations. How different is it? Or is it different at all from cycles like this you've seen in the past?
I think the rate of change as opposed to the content of change itself has picked up. You're talking about the great resignation till a month ago, and now you're talking about great restructuring. And then, you're going to talk about great resignation once again in the next few months. I think that rate has picked up so fast that many leaders feel that they really don't control the environment anymore. Living through a crisis has now become a core competency. It's not a peripheral skill. You can think about the strategy, you can think about long term plans, but you are actually caught by what happens to you at the end of the day when that message comes through and you don't anticipate it. I think that is what is unnerving many people because there is no template. That's why I call this phase, the figure it out phase, not the find it out phase.
What do I mean by that? The find it out phase is, you have something to fall back on. There is a template. There is a best practice. There is a benchmark. There is somebody who has done it before and you can say, “Alright, I'm going to try that out.” In the figure it out phase, even at an individual level, not just at an organizational level, you have no clue. So you have to experiment, you have to innovate, you have to pilot and test out the waters. You really have no idea where it's going to end up. So I think, living on the edge, living on the flow of change and leading on the flow of change is the new norm that I think all the next era of leaders need to grapple with. Things were a little better for us, not that it was perfect, but actually the next era of leaders need to grapple with the fact that they are living on the edge all the time. And it is an occupational hazard to lead organizations which are constantly in white waters.
Yeah. Let's then lean within. As you so thoughtfully put it, not just lean in, but lean within. It seems to me that in this context of change being almost inexorable and unavoidable, continual, imperative, and one which the pace is so searing, the role of any decision maker, any leader, any person in a position of responsibility, 70 or 80% of what you do in a day might be very programmatic, might be things based on how things have been done in the past and you probably just are able to very comfortably operate by instinct, by past judgment. Then, about 20% of what you're doing now and then, you have to really go deep and slow down, be creative, soul search and assimilate from so many other sources and people. But today, it seems like most of the things that you have to do, most of the things that are on your desk every morning require more of that conscious, deliberate, thoughtful, experimental evolutionary work. So it appears to me that it's possible that a number of leaders with the pressures they face, the uncertainty, the need to bring in much more of cognition, the engagement and thought and connection with people and collaboration. It is a recipe potentially for leadership burnout.
Absolutely correct. There's going to be an important discussion on that one. But you're right, the difficulty that many leaders have is that there is no template. They end up being prone to two kinds of biases. One is an expediency bias, and second is an experience bias.
What do I mean by expediency bias? Expediency bias is when you want to solve the problem today and you come up with an answer, “Okay, I'm going to declare a 3-2 kind of a framework for remote working. That's it.” There is a drawback from that. Then experience bias is when you use your experience to continue to harp on to the old rather than pivot to the new. For example, my perception is that working from the office is more productive than working from home. That's an experience bias that many of us are used to. I think what ends up happening is that leaders get stuck and they are now grappling with the need to make decisions, the need to move forward and feeling stuck. That is a real cause for tension and burnout because they don't know what to do. Damned if they did, damned if they didn't. A clear example of that is Apple, which perfectly came up with the idea, “Okay, 2 days people can work from home and we're going to provide them flexibility. But in 3 days they need to come to the office.” And many organizations have done that. What's ended up happening is that over 70% of employees in Apple pushed back. In fact, one of their senior leaders, Ian Goodfellow, resigned. The open letter from the Apple employees actually says, “You allow us to decide what is best for us and allow us to do our best work in our lives.” That is the open letter.
What would you do if you say, “Okay, my stance is, I'm going to allow you to come for 3 days to the office and these are the days.” And employees say, “No, we will decide which 3 days to come.” That is not something that you know how to answer. What does it do to the executive saying that, “Okay, here are decisions I’m making, I don't know if I'm right or wrong. And if I'm wrong, I am now in a public square with Twitter or recordings and whatnot, and I'm being reprimanded publicly by my employees and the society. I think that is a cause for enormous tension and therefore people are in a gridlock in terms of how to approach this.
Yeah, it strikes me that this may be a great time for all of us to become students, like you have, in the last few years. One of the things perhaps we can study is just how history could guide us about how in the past iconic figures, people who have left a really positive, beautiful mark on humanity with their leadership, perhaps sometimes stretching over decades, how is it that they actually ended up comporting themselves at times when there was a fair amount of disruption and change and they were actually pushing for some of that themselves? And therefore, what are some of the practices they were engaging in that made them overcome this kind of expediency bias or experience bias? I'm thinking about Lincoln's Civil War. It was obviously a hugely disruptive time, going through something unprecedented in America's history. Then, you have Gandhi and the movement he was trying to lead in India, Mother Teresa doing her work. These are people, as you know, are well loved by me in the research that I've been doing over the years which, I've dedicated chapters to in the book.
I think there are a few things that we can turn to for advice and guidance to our inner circle of inspirational figures like these.
You write about that so eloquently in your book. The whole thing about wisdom is about finding your own internal markers. When you're facing such a dynamic environment where you really don't have answers, you are guided by your moral compass. In fact, a few days ago, Tim Cook was giving a convocation or commencement address in one of the universities, and he said, “In the future, those of us who want to lead need to start leading through an inner compass or a moral compass.” It's not about what will happen. It's about who you will be when that happens that matters most.
Oh, how beautiful! It links to something I like to say, which is, great leaders are great followers. Typically, when we have used that expression, which has been used at times in business that, leaders need to be followers, the frame for that has been followers of their people. But, I think the frame we are talking about, which is what I prefer and I like to talk about also, is that they are followers of their inner voice. They are really engaged in the discipline of listening and surrendering to that inner voice.
It moves me to share a story which is, there is this American journalist who was very inspired by Gandhi and his movement and went over to meet him in India and at some point said, “Mr. Gandhi, you speak so actively about the need to listen to your inner voice and be guided by it and that it's so important to you. A lot of people claim to follow their inner voice, sometimes to really dangerous and bad places in what they take on and what they do, where it's quite clear that they were in some ways quite delusionary. So how do you know for sure that it's the right voice that is guiding you and not some kind of wrong, misguided voice. And is it the case that you first really validate and prove to yourself that it's the right voice and then you surrender to it?” And the journalist reports later, he said, Gandhi looked at me as though, is this all that you have understood about my movement, my teachings, my methods? Because it seems so far away from what I truly mean. And then he says, Gandhi actually explained his facial expression to me. He said, “Actually, it's the complete opposite. It's not that you first have to convince yourself that it's your inner voice, and then you surrender to it. It is the opposite. You first surrender. And it is in that act of surrender where you are beyond attachments and ego and insecurities, that then you can feel secure that what you are listening to is actually your inner voice.”
That's so powerfully put. One question I have is, maybe, over the last 2 or 3 years, given what we have had to do as humanity, many of us may actually have done that. That's what I'm excited about. That's what I call the age of unfolding. We may have started listening to our inner voice more. What it has done is, brought about 3 shifts. And that goes straight into your book. For me, the first shift is a career life fit shift. I am not talking about work life balance. Career life fit shift. What people are looking for is what we are working for? And more than that, what are we living for? If they are basing their decisions on what are we living for? It goes back to saying, is my career meeting my inner purpose? And while they may not be able to articulate that somewhere along the line, I think the lamp has been lit. For them to say, “Okay, is this where I feel I belong or is there something I need to do differently?” And you can see that. Whether it is the nurses. They're not against the profession. They're against the career they're in. Many of us make the decision saying that, “I don't feel that this kind of a career is going to give me fulfillment and I'm not going to let my life values determine my career, not the other way around.
I think that's a powerful shift that I think people are experiencing, which is why, according to McKinsey, 33% of the people who are leaving due to the great resignation are leaving without jobs. They are doing their own stuff. They're starting their own consulting. They're starting their own gig work. They are embracing their passion and purpose. I think it's the moment that has created the movement, so to speak. I think it's a very powerful appreciation of the fact that as human beings there is this inner stirring, inner trigger within us that has been set on fire. I hope everybody gets to read your chapter on living with purpose and leading with purpose, because that is the source of how people are making their shifts and decisions.
Yeah. One of the things that I've really over time realized is so critical is to make idealism marry pragmatism. Each of us, from inside, has a certain heroic aspiration, a certain purity of purpose and a desire to manifest beauty in some ways that are very personal to who we are. And at the same time, we are in this messy, muddy world around us. Whatever the conditions and the times that we live in, sometimes people think that you're talking about the workplace, but I'm talking about just like every aspect of your outer life. Because, sometimes even in one's family relationships and even the societal expectations around us, we're not perfectly seeing ourselves fit in every which way with regard to the expectations and asks and desires of people around us. Whether it's on the personal or professional side, sometimes that can be very messy and muddy. That's the pragmatists that also need to merge. As I think about some of these things you're saying about the great resignation, people pulling back, going more to their core values and wanting to express them, I also wonder if along the way they'll discover like, “Oh, wow, but I also need to make money. I do have a certain hunger for wanting to be liked, loved, applauded and rewarded on the outside and I kind of miss some of that because I am trying to do my own thing, but I'm really struggling with making money. I joined this organization with much more of a beautiful purpose. But it's not really doing financially good as well.”
I've actually seen that. I've seen that with a couple of people close at hand who left to be pursuing a more idealistic career, then got grounded more on the pragmatism of what they felt they needed out of life, financially and otherwise, and ended up moving back to a more mainstream corporate thing, which really is not as much a source of passion for them, but it is giving them the practical things that they want to do.
One of the things I want to offer from that and one of the things I talk about in the book is that when we get more purpose driven, we also have to know what things to say no to and part of that no is just like simplifying life so that if you can get to a point where you can be at peace, you can be happy with less. Less consumption, less of what's the minimum financial requirement I have for my family and I to be, perhaps less cars in the garage or whatever? For those of us who are not financially completely free and independent, it's those kinds of disciplines that then actually make us very free because the range of flexible options for us in life just start to dramatically expand. I don't know what you think of that.
I would push back on that one Hitendra. You're right in one sense, and not so right in the other sense. That's where our experience bias comes in. That's exactly how I thought. My thinking was, “Okay, we also need to put food on the table. So how do we reconcile the two?" I was just reading yesterday that Gen Z, which is those people born between 1997 and 2012 who are coming into the workforce, are going to be 27% of the workforce in the next 3 years. The key differentiators between them and the previous generation, is the fact that these are people who don't trust institutions at all. Instead, they only trust their skills. They said, I'll get my own badging, I'll get my own skills, and they are far more wise to issues of inequity, inequalities, how do I make sure that I live my purpose. They are making choices based on how they want to live?
I read a quote from one youngster, which was fantastic. He said, “Listen, we know that these are some practical issues, but we also know that the pain is inevitable. However, suffering is a choice. So I will make the choices based on whether I want to suffer or not. And I would rather not suffer from a dead end job which gives me money, than take up a job where I have more meaning than money. Will that put me at risk? Will that make me an outcast in society? Will that make me live a life less than what I'm used to? Maybe it's worth the sacrifice. Your definition of success is frozen in time. Wake up. You need to see something different.”
Yeah. Well, that's a very powerful shift if that's actually happening, not just at an anecdotal level, but something more thematically across that generation. After all, at some level, we should all be humble enough to realize that if you look at the history of the last few hundred years, pretty much every generation at some level or the other has in a positive way outdone the previous one. Which is why, even with all the shaking and stirring that is happening today, we've ended up in a much better world today than we were a hundred years ago. And that was quite a lot better than 200 years ago. From that vantage point, these Gen-Zs in another 30, 40, 50 years when they're taking over the world, they're probably going to create a much better world than ours.
That's why I'm really optimistic. I have one other shift to talk about. This goes into living with love and leading with love. I think it's an understated phenomenon that's happening. We're all preoccupied with the concept of well-being. We now talk about well-being as the opposite of ill-being, which is the world is broken down, mental health issues, burn out issues and stress. Those are realities. No doubt about that. But, if you look at what people are trying to do in terms of well-being, your book taps on something else, which is perhaps not fully leveraged. And I'll come to that.
When we talk about addressing well-being, many people talk about well-being in terms of the enjoyment that we all need to have. We need to go for the occasional ballgame or we need to go for the concert, where we can enjoy ourselves. I think that's a very human tendency that also addresses well-being. For a couple of years, we were all locked up at home and now that the world is starting to come back, we are wanting to travel. We want to see new things and experience new things. There's another angle to well-being, which is around mindfulness, which is around gratitude, which is around sleep and some of those things that basically calm you down. You pick up on a 3rd aspect of well-being, which is under leveraged, and that's love. When you share love, the feeling that you have of well-being actually dramatically increases and you don't need any external machinery to do that. And when we talk about the word love here, we are talking about your definition here, which is being joyful in other people's joy. You see some of that stuff happening, but it's not brought to light. If you hear of a story about a young lad who wakes up at 3 am in the morning to walk to work for 6 hours, the GoFundMe page now makes sure that he gets a car or she gets a car. Or if you look at Ukraine, the kind of outpouring of love that we have had. I was reading today that almost all the psychiatrists and psychologists in Israel have gone out of their way. There's one lady of Israeli or Ukrainian origin who said, “I'm going to be helping out these people who are obviously going through trauma.” And before she knew it, she could not meet the requirements and the demand. So she started asking for help. Now, you have a huge number of psychiatrists who are helping the Ukrainian people navigate through their suffering. One of the statements this lady made was, “It is meant more for me than for them.”
I think the fact that you are able to contribute to the uplifting of humanity through your share of love and giving is a huge well-being lever. That's why organizations look at what they need to do to address well-being and stress. I think there is a lot to be said for volunteer work, making sure that you have the chance of benefiting somebody who is not as lucky as you. Addressing those issues is an untapped potential of well-being that we perhaps need to think about more seriously. I don't know what you have to say.
I love it. One broad frame in which maybe we could place this with the HR kind of hats that we might wear for a minute is, intrinsic versus extrinsic drivers of motivation. We have operated in business for so long with the assumption that people are economic maximizing agents, very rational, very much about optimizing their financial and other similar material outcomes and that's certainly an undeniable part of the human motivation system, and that's the external one. Yet at the same time, if that's the only one you operate with at a team level, at manager level, at an individual level, at an organizational level, you're just missing out on so much more richness there is to human drives. What you are just citing here is Raghu, that yes, one of those drives can actually be more of the resilience and meaning that the right purpose and alignment with your values can bring, which you just spoke about and you talked about in an inspiring way how there are so many Gen-Z that are actually starting to activate other alternative systems of motivation. But then, love is another of those motivation systems within us where when the heart is on fire, then just fundamentally one is so driven to do heroic and beautiful and selfless work without necessarily the need to feel you're going to reciprocally get some material or psychic-like acknowledgement.
It's funny, it reminds me of the story about Abraham Lincoln. He was once going with a senator in a carriage somewhere, and he was asserting to the senator that basically human nature is fundamentally selfish. It's about serving one's own self. Now, this is someone we know in history, who is actually a remarkable figure for the very selfless leadership he had. He was basically arguing for how selfish human nature is. And then at one point, he noticed that there was a sow, a female pig and her two little piglets. He saw that there was a marshy terrain, maybe there's been rain there recently and these two little piglets were basically swirling in that marsh, almost being sucked in by the swampy conditions probably to drown and ultimately to die. The sow was really almost shrieking in some kind of pain at seeing the risk of losing her two little ones. So Lincoln actually asked the carriage to pause and then he steps out of it, and then he goes over there into those muddy, marshy waters, rescues those two little piglets and puts them back in the safe refuge of their mother. Then he comes back muddy and all into the carriage. The senator looks triumphantly at Lincoln because he'd been having an argument or a debate about it. And he says, “See, Mr. Lincoln, you were wrong. Human nature is not selfish. If it was selfish, you wouldn't have done what you just did.” And then Lincoln looked at him and said, “But I did it for me. I did it for me because I would have been in so much pain if I had allowed this moment to pass and just ignored it, so I did it for my own joy.”
You quote in the book, which says, “Love is the bridge to everything.” I think it's a very powerful notion of well-being, love is an important source of well-being in everything we do. The question is, can it be intentional? I tried this as an experiment. I must tell you this. What can I do this morning that exemplifies this value? One of the things I did was, one of my students has been going through a tough patch. And having gone through a tough patch, she could not complete her assignments on time. I had 2 alternatives. I could say, “I'm going to fail you or I can give you more time.” I decided to give her more time and gave her some tips. When she finished it and sent it to me, I marked her grades and there were issues. It was not perfect. What I did do was, if I were to lead with love as opposed to just giving her a bad grade, what would I do differently? I'm using Hitendra’s tricks here. So, I sent her a note saying that I'm so proud of you. I'm so proud of you for having gone through what you've gone through and still coming up with what you did. You had to work extra hard. You had to work more hours in the night while you were in class to do what you needed to do and you produced an output, which I must say falls below my expectation, but knowing the context with which you did it, I am overjoyed that you were able to pull this through. I'm going to ask you to keep in mind that my standards from you are going to only increase and I'm here to support you through that journey. I felt so good after that. For me, that is a moment of well-being.
That's so beautiful. Thank you for sharing that. What a great story. I can only imagine how she will be receiving it and how lasting an impact it will have on her. What you've just exemplified here, as you've said, is not just the broad kind of quality of love and how, as an experiment, you've discovered that in a selfless capacity, when you put it out there, it ends up benefiting you yourself.
I talk in the book about how sometimes we feel very paralyzed from acting upon that instinct. As much as we have great intentions and aspirations about what we want to do, we feel quite helpless about being able to have really any material impact at times in the life of the suffering soul who's in front of us. At times, in the context of the causes that we really believe in, because they seem so intractable and large, and meanwhile I'm just a drop in that ocean. Oftentimes, many of us are not doing anything or we struggle with it. For example, if they just lost a loved one, what is it that I can say or do right now which will ever be of any help to them? Because I'm so minuscule compared to this gravity of loss that they've just gone through.
The thing that I've learned through so many stories and studies like this, is that, actually it matters. It matters to put your love in action, even in small actions, even just a symbolic action. It may not be something that can materially, fully and permanently and scalably change everything in what it is that is causing the need, hunger, pain or something out there, but having put your love into some small, simple action. That was the message and the value that I have seen in Mother Teresa's. They may not have been able to cleanse the whole ocean of humanity. Whatever little drop, whatever little thing for them, that was significant and meaningful and gave them peace of mind.
Actually, more recently, just before I had to put the final kind of dotting of I’s and crossing of T's in the book, I actually came across a very satisfying research, some signs which shows that you actually become more at peace with yourself when you have certain aspirations like that and you just give some expression to them. It could be a simple expression, a small expression, or a limited expression. In your case Raghu, you can't fully turn around the life of this individual that you're talking about, but still you put your love into action.
The only question I have for you Hitendra is, there is an intentionality to it. You got to use that as a discipline. So in some ways I'm wondering love and action or purpose and action, every one of the five things that we speak about in the book, there is an intentionality. Maybe even beyond. For instance, can you put empathy into action? Can you put curiosity into action in everything you do?
I'm actually reminded of one of the lessons we learned from Ben Franklin, the 13 virtues. If we decide to pick one or two and exemplify that for that particular day, you can do all 13 of them. But I'm saying, I'm going to be curious today, and every action that you have or you take is through the lens of curiosity. Because otherwise, the default is on and unfortunately, we become victims of reactionary behavior as opposed to intentional behavior. Therefore, as leaders, the appeal I would have is, if you want to start from within, if you want to find the source of energy from within, I think we may need to be more intentional in some of these behaviors going forward.
Yeah. Very well-put. I think there's a resource out there. I may not be able to immediately get it right here, but I can point us towards that, which is, there is some great research in the positive psychology movement that has started from UPenn. There's a list of 24 universal values. I think that community, at some point, had put up some resources about giving us examples of how you put creativity into action on a random day in your life. How do you put humility into action? How do you put transcendence into action? How do you put gratitude into action, etc.? And it's a great resource for those of us who are drawn to the idea of making these things very tangible and very expressed in our daily lives.
The question I would have is, what does it mean if on one hand you have this whole swirl happening in the environment, and on the other hand, people are becoming more intentional, based on themselves, their inner source? What does it mean going forward? And that's where the two meet, right? The inner mastery as a toolkit for outer impact. I think that's where the two converge for me. The future of leadership. We talked about the future of work. We talked about the future of the worker, the workplace. We hardly talked about the future of leadership. That is what I meant by the future of leadership is about unlearning. It's about unlearning management and relearning leadership, which means that we have got to rethink our leadership from a human centric point of view and not necessarily from a business centric point of view. We have got to re-engineer that. If you look at the greatest of leaders, whether it's Mandela, Gandhi or Lincoln, their success came from their human centricity. Not from their outcome centricity. The fact that they were able to create an environment where they were able to shift people's perspectives based on how they operated in a human centric way. It's such a powerful example for us to use going forward in a very uncertain, difficult, and a traumatic world. Each of these leaders are perfect examples of those people who are dealing with complex, multilayered, multidimensional, traumatic situations, but using their human skills as a vehicle for transformation.
My big issue is, you see some of the people laying off people, leaders exemplifying more of a transactional orientation. McKinsey came up with a study. They looked at what did leaders think about the great resignation, the leader said, it is because of compensation. It's because of the fact that they wanted to work from home. Some people even said that's because they are lazy, etc. But if you ask the employees why they are leaving the organization, McKinsey said the opposite. “I'm not being valued by my manager. I'm not being valued by my organization. I feel the fact that I don't have a keen sense of belonging.” There you are. You actually have a dichotomy and leaders need to realize that they need to start the shift based on a human centric focus.
In fact, Josh Bersin, who's an HR guru, did a survey of 400 HR managers. The conclusion they came to was that the future of organization is going to be human centric. At the end of the day, if you look at the biggest discovery we have had, the future of work is not about artificial intelligence, machine learning. That will happen. But, it's about people. Worldwide, that's what we've gone through.
I want to come back to the theme of love that you brought up. To your point, when these leaders have been very human centric, what I find is that this is not merely an intellectual choice. It's not merely an awareness. These folks were incredibly in love with humanity. Then naturally so, that love starts to flow. The dedication, commitment, and purpose starts to flow. The attunement, the empathy, the compassion, the connection all that starts to flow because they're just deeply in love. You can't be in love unless there's something about the other side that you are in awe of, that you find magical, that you find really pure, beautiful and soaring and you feel very connected to it. Without those conditions, how can you be in love? In some ways, I felt like one of the seeds we have to sow in our lives is this capacity to live in a state of appreciation.
I'll give you an example. Steve Jobs is not traditionally considered in mainstream consciousness to be one of these love oriented leaders. But actually, I see him as a tremendous force of love that was expressed through many of his actions in unique ways. We may have only so much time to go through something like that here today. More of that to be read. If you read the chapter on Living with Growth in my book, when we think about all the genius that he was able to unleash in terms of creativity, design, innovation and all of that, where did it come from? Where did it start? Was it because he just had tremendous insight into the future of products and technology and all that? No. What was different between Steve Jobs and other technologists of his time and other folks that were doing innovations in his time. What was different about Steve Jobs is, he really believed in humanity. He believed that within every human being, laid somebody with high design sensibilities, somebody who would choose if they were given the choice to go for something which was highly well-designed, gave a simple and beautiful and compelling user experience, even if it cost hundreds of dollars or more than the traditional mainstream product there. That's what he did. The cost of phones was going down. The Nokias and Motorolas from 200, 150, 100, and they were fighting over how many more features and how many more buttons to put on those phones. Incredibly complex devices. You needed all kinds of orientation and training before you could use any of them. But, as consumers, we weren't really thinking very much about what's the alternative? We want the price to go down and we kind of want more features and it's just going to be messy and complicated. He just pierces through all of that into our soul, and he sees at the level of our soul in humanity somebody who is really able to make good design away from poor design and is able to use good design. Then he tells his people to go ahead and design this and do this, and then he introduces the product in the market at a price point, which is a multiple cost of an average phone. And typically, the logic has been that that's a premium pay. It will attract a certain luxury segment because it's x3, x4 the normal price. He doesn't sacrifice market share. He actually dominates market share with a x3, x4 premium price product. So he completely destroys that tradeoff that we find actually in price demand kind of elasticity, where price is high, demand is high, because he actually activated another dimension of who we are because he was in love with humanity. He saw possibilities in us that nobody else was seeing, including sometimes our own selves.
Gandhi saw the same thing. He saw peace in people, whereas everybody else said, “Well, when there's a revolution, then people will be very bloody and fighting oriented.” But Gandhi saw peace even while there was a revolution to be done.
Mother Teresa saw compassion in people. It evoked and drew out compassion even in people like feared dictators who would eat from her hands and say, “Mother, you remind me of my grandmother.” Others were shivering in their skins at that time about being in front of the Sandinista rebel, General Noriega, who I have a story about in the book about Mother Teresa and him.
So anyway, I just wanted to offer that up to make a great point about a lot of this human thing starts from what's your relationship with humanity? Do you see positivity and beauty and magic in people? Because if you don't, then maybe that's the first place we all have to start.
I agree. What you say just now also reminds me, is leadership about pushing or is leadership about pulling in? What I mean is, most of us assume that if you are a leader, you have to push and push, succeed, execute, get things done, and make sure that you get people to do the most for you. But if you are Mother Teresa, if you are Steve Jobs, you pull people into your orbit and they become leaders, not because they proclaim themselves to be leaders, not because they have the position of a leader, but because they pull people into their orbit and make them change makers. So in many ways, I think that is the shift that we have to see in all of us.
I think with the younger age group, I'm very optimistic about the next generation of people demanding that there is a different world out there. Now, it will be a pity if we fail them because that means that we are reverting back to old. But actually, they are far more activist oriented than we ever were, and I think they will demand and drive for the change for the world to be better.
Yeah. I'm with you. I feel a sense of optimism as well. I think that, sometimes the path of evolution is incremental and it's about learning and mastering the tools of the trade and getting to find an inside route towards ultimately being an agent of reform. Sometimes, there are moments that come, where you realize that actually so much of the old order needs to be dismantled, that it might be better just to start from scratch and start building new systems and new ideas and new approaches. I think I'm seeing a little bit of that happening now, which is what is accelerating change that is no longer a spend of five years, then ten years and then 15 years and then incrementally add your little imprint to the world in law or in medicine or something. But the possibility today of just complete reinvention starting from scratch with certain more fresh ideas, core building blocks that are out there in the society, those possibilities are there. I'm fascinated about when we look back, 20, 30 or 40 years later to see what kind of constructive, positive revolutions were wrought on that.
I think on that note, we need to close it. While the world may look difficult and troublesome, I think something good will emerge out of this whole equation. From that point of view, all of us are going to become a lot more reflective, a lot more thoughtful. We are going to be guided by our experience, but also by our inner voice as we go forward.
Oh, that's beautiful! Lincoln, in the midst of all the crisis and the criticism that was being hurled at him, some saying, you're going too fast. Another saying, you're going too slow. He said, “Look, I just want to conduct the affairs of the state so that at the end of the day, I may have lost every other friend on Earth except that one friend who is deep down inside of me”. That potential is there for all of us to strengthen. In fact, that's my greatest wish for the next generation, the greatest wish that don't listen to your friends. Don't listen to me, don't listen to Raghu or anyone, but develop a really strong, clear, humble, open, surrendering attitude towards attunement with the universe and with nature as it expresses itself to you through the subtle stirrings that arise within through the inner voice. If that is what we can give as our message and our guidance to the next generation, what a lifelong asset they would have with them to kind of help.
It's been a great joy to have you with us. You always are so replete and rich with new stories, new statistics and new perspectives on things. It's so refreshing every time we have a conversation. I know we've had a couple of them in the past in Intersections and now this one here today. Very grateful. Good luck in your new role at UPenn as well. You're stewarding a really important responsibility in taking the offices and organizations and really helping them learn the most cutting edge of what it is that we can today offer for advancing human potential in organizations. So excited for the journey that you're going on and looking forward to your book coming out.
Thank you.
Just to close it out, what would you likely think your first book will be on?
It'll be on how HR practices need to change to be a lot more human centric. And this is out of 38 years of corporate life. I feel now I look at the lay of the land and having had the last two or three years to think this through, I know the many things that I did wrong. And out of that comes wisdom, right? You calibrate what you're learning through the eyes of your battle scars and what you've gone through. And you realize and appreciate the fact that there could be another way. Hopefully I'll be focusing on what the other way will be.
It's such a beautiful way through which to channel positivity through one's own errors of the past, which is like, it is because of my errors that future generations will not make errors. If I can actually codify and help create some teaching and learning out of it, so humanity on the whole grows from the investment that was made in my life experience. How wonderful
Thank you for the opportunity and good luck with the book!
Thank you. Take care. Bye.
